LastyearIcalledemergencyservicesbecauseIfoundmypartnerunconsciousonthefloor.Withinminutesapolicecarandambulancearrivedfilledwithpolicedoctorsandnurseswhomovedmypartnerawaytotheemergencydepartmentwherehereceivedthecriticalcarethatheneeded.
AweeklaterstillmarvelingattheimpactofahandfulofstrangersIwrotethank-younotestothosehelpfulpoliceanddoctorsandnursesandbakedforthem.Itwasasmallgesturewithabigimpact.WhenIdroppedoffcakesatthepoliceandfirestationstheythankedmeforthegifts.IdroveawayfeelinglightandhappypartlybecauseI’ddoneagooddeedbutmostlybecauseIwasamazedthatthereareselflesspeoplewhodolife-savingworkandexpectnothinginreturn.Researchhasshownthatsharingthoughtsofgratitudeandperformingactsofkindnesscanboostyourmoodandhaveotherpositiveeffectsonyourhealth.
Whenyoufeelthankfulforthingsyou’vereceivedorsomethingthat’shappenedthat’sgratitude.It’simpossibletofeelitinavacuum;othersarealwaysresponsiblewhetherthey’relovedonesstrangersorahigherpower.“Gratitudeishowyourelatetootherswhenyouseeyourselfinconnectionwiththingslargerthanyourself”Ruchsays.
Todaymanypeopledon’tstoptoappreciatewhattheyhavemuchlessexpressgratitude.Ourinstant-gratificationlifestylemaybetoblame.
“Withcommercialandsocialmediaeverythingisspeedingtheyoungergenerationtomakethemfeelthattheyarethecentreoftheuniverse”saysTamikoZablithfounderoftheLondon-basedetiquetteconsultingfirmMindingManners.“Ifit’sallaboutthemwhythankothers?”
Whynotthankothers?Studieshaveshownthatpeoplewhoexpressgratitudeincreasetheirhappinesslevelslowertheirbloodpressurelevelsgetbetterqualitysleepimprovetheirrelationshipshaveapositiveimpactontheirdepressionlevelsandarelessaffectedbypain.
Becausegratitudeisafairlynewfieldofstudyresearchersarestilltryingtoidentifyitscause-and-effectrelationshipwithvarioushealthbenefits.
61.Theauthor’spartnerwassavedlargelydueto_____________.
A.hisgoodluck B.therescuers’jointefforts
C.theauthor’simmedia
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